Thursday, July 06, 2006

Esto se está poniendo bueno ...


Iam responding to the comments that anonymous said regarding making love for long periods of time and witholding ejaculation.

First of all I have to say that in my opinion, anonymous is not considering anyone but himself. As a biologist and woman I can say that physically there are limits to how much stimulation can be handled before there is abrassion and hurt. The mind wonders away and the vaginal fluids dry up in a woman after a time. Then it is no longer a matter of pleasure for her, but discomfort! Perhaps the man is thinking only of himself and not his partner though.

I find it very interesting, and also a bit egocentric, that he considers his semen a divine gift of the gods. I feel that the woman's body and her ovum within are just as important and divine. Perhaps the woman should then also be very concerned about all the men like him. She might not want his semen to contaminate her body or impregnate her ovum if he is not important in her life! It is rather obvious that a man has thousands of sperm in his semen and a woman only one ovum a month to impregnate! Talk about relative importance.

I also want to mention the idea of long and passionate versus a quickie. Frankly I am not fond of quickies and do prefer long and passionate within the limits of comfort for the people involved. It seems that anonymous is too involved in his own passion and his own need and not in the other partner. It really is most wonderful when the people practice the act in a most natural way of letting the feelings ebb and flow naturally and not play mind games of control. Then passion is shared and the gift is given when the two people jointly reach a climax without manipulation on anyone's part. Making love has to be about being generous to the other. It is an act of giving and receiving pleasure equally. If this is not the intent, it is just about personal gratification. Anonymous seems to imply that he just cares to go on and on regardless of the other person's level of engagement or interest in continuing the activity. So I ask...who is he making love to or with....his mind

28 comments:

Anonymous said...

Estoy de acuerdo. este hombre lo único que le interesa es el mismo. La mujer que está con el tiene que escapar ya que es un- EGOISTA- y lo va a ser toda su vida

Anonymous said...

BUENISIMO arriba mujeres abajo los hombres como este.

Anonymous said...

Solo le interesa complacerse a si mismo que great macho.

Anonymous said...

Bravo por la que escribio esta respuesta. hay muchos hombres que son así tan egoistas que viven pensando en ellos mismos como este. Y espero que lea en español asi lee mi opinion sobre el.

Anonymous said...

Me gusta el amor lento pero no por mucho tiempo porque es un problema de vagina -para todas las mujeres-. pero a los hombres como este no le importa nada mas -que el mismo-.

Anonymous said...

Hacer el amor es de dos -no lo que uno quiere- realmente este tipo es un egocéntrico Y el artículo muy interesante

Anonymous said...

Este tipo de hombre no sabe querer y seguramente ha tenido muchos amores en su vida...

Anonymous said...

find it very interesting, and also a bit egocentric, that he considers his semen a divine gift of the gods. I feel that the woman's body and her ovum within are just as important and divine -Quien lo escribió sabe lo que dice.

Anonymous said...

Si su semen es divino que es el cuerpo de la mujer?? -SAGRADO- damos vida a nuestros hijos.

Anonymous said...

seems that anonymous is too involved in his own passion and his own need and not in the other partner-
Increible respuesta felicitaciones a quien la escribió

Anonymous said...

Hello again,
I'm posting this clarification to the posting that this is directed to.

I did not mean to imply that I personally held the belief that the male sperm was a gift from God. I was explaining some of the background of WHY it was withheld.
Also I am not self centered at all. The hours of foreplay I was refering too at the end are hours I devote to my lovers needs. My lover is a wonderful woman with whom I'm deeply in love. She likes quickies....I like it slow
but she has no issue with being wet all the time.....she is Muy Caliente!! Always a fantasy to make me crazy.....I love how she is.

Anonymous said...

Aviso para tu lover aléjate de él

Anonymous said...

El problema aquí es que somos solo mujeres las que contestamos...SOLO UN HOMBRE LO HIZO Y POR POCO LO MATAMOS..

Anonymous said...

I don't think we "matamos" or killed the guy...we just expressed our thoughts as he did his!
He better think again if he is truly satisfying the woman he loves or himself best. If as he said she likes quickies and he does not and insists on taking as long as he wants...then this is going beyond her satisfaction to his insistence on the length vs. quality that she would like! Believe me...muy caliente or not...it all dries in time it is just the way the body works...it needs rest to recouperate! I am muy caliente and know...but I happen to be a woman not a man!

Anonymous said...

Muy interesante el debate. Y me gustaria saber quien es el lover de este hombre para decirle a ella que -no le conviene este tipo de hombre-

Anonymous said...

I am curious. How many of the women that have strong opinions that I am not a caring or sensitive lover, are in a relationship? And you make it sound like my lover is just a rag doll and has NO say in our love making......why do you assume something like that?

Anonymous said...

Porque hombres como tu, son controladores en la cama y fuera de ella. Y son mujeriegos y lo único que les gusta es ellos mismos también son inseguros como tu lo eres.

My Truth said...
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Anonymous said...

It is interesting that the man answering wants to be contacted directly and not openly with all the opinions of everyone else. This blog is posting a topic for discussion openly, not privately. That would take the fun of the open give and take away! Well I think it is best to have open discussion with as many people as possible too.

Another person said that people like this man who are controlling in bed are just controlling in other aspects of life also. She may very well be right since he seems to want to take the discussion away to himself and not leave it in the open blog where it belongs! I wonder how he feels about the woman he loves having friends and a life that may not always include him. I find that so many women of a Hispanic descent are inhibited by the culture and even coerced into a belief that when they have a man he runs their life completely!

For everyone's information...since it was implied that I have not had satisfying relationships...the answer is you are wrong. I now have and have had very completely satisfying relationships in all aspects of my life. I am very giving...willingly out of love ...because the man has not controlled but has loved back as my complement and equal. I think the type of relationship you foster in bed is only an extension of the way you tend to treat all others in your life. If you are controlling and want your way only...then you are in many ways.

I want to make clear I am Hispanic and so know the culture and its ways. I look at many women in my family and how they are treated by their husbands, boyfriends, etc and find that many of them allow their lives to revolve around the man's wims. I also find others whom I consider more enlightened who have balanced relashionships based on trust, understanding and communication. It is refreshing to see this happening more and more in the younger women of my culture.

Anonymous said...

Para las personas que no entienden el ingles lo siento mucho que escribo mejor mis sentimientos en ingles. Pero si puedo decir que la persona controladora en un aspecto de su vida tiende a serlo en otras. Ese hombre que escribe piensa que no creo que es sensitivo. Pues sinceramente no lo conozco pero una persona sensitiva suena mas adaptable a las necesidades y los deseos de la persona que ama. Por lo menos me parece a mi asi. !Es como yo trato de ser con todas las personas con que trato amadas o simplemente conocidas!

My Truth said...
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Anonymous said...

Nosotras somaos las estupidas siempre que no entendemos y ustedes los que saben.

Anonymous said...

Toda persona moderna sabe que nadie pide escribir a un blog personalmente. Un blog es para discutir todo en el blog muchacho.

Anonymous said...

ninguno de nosotros y somos muchos dijo de hablar personalmente solo Truth por lo tanto estas EQUIVOCADO TU.

Anonymous said...

For the ladies that misunderstood my first post, you may contact me direct with your opinions and perhaps I can understand more of a womans perspective and you might come to understand .

El escribió eso y ahora dice que no entendimos. CONTACT me direct

Anonymous said...

I have paid the price for my words.

Anonymous said...

En la vida hay que reconocer los errores.. y muchas veces se pierde por no saber reconocerlos

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