Friday, July 28, 2006


¿Es flirtear con alguien ser infiel?...¿ Es coquetear con los demás ser infiel?

Para mí el flirteo es algo emocional, forma parte de mi personalidad...es una manera de coquetear de ser Mucha..nada más..Quizás de gustar a los demás. Lo hago sin darme, lo hice toda la vida -desde chica lo hacía-Según dice la gente el flirteo es una forma de infidelidad...aunque no haya contacto físico de por medio, ya que se está solicitando una atención que no es precisamente de amistad.Según el diccionario: " El flirteo es un juego de seducción entre un hombre y una mujer".

Y a ustedes...¿Qué les parece ?
Mucha©

62 comments:

Anonymous said...

Qué significado tiene para ti? ¿Simplemente es una manera de gustar a los demás o lleva connotaciones que rayan la infidelidad?
Para muchas, un flirteo es un juego inevitablemente inherente al ser humano, como animal social que es. Y es que el hombre tiene la necesidad de agradar a todos los que le rodean, más si cabe si estos son del sexo opuesto.
Para otras muchas, el coquetear con otra persona, aunque sólo sea por el hecho de agradar, puede despertar una respuesta, y es aquí donde se presenta el peligro real de la infidelidad.

Anonymous said...

To flirt = coquetear
This gentleman is flirting with me = este caballero está coqueteando conmigo
This gentleman is exhibiting a flirtateous behaviour towards me = este caballero está exhibiendo un comportamiento de coquetería hacia mí
This gentleman's demeanor (towards me) showed evident romantic overtones = El comportamiento de este caballero (hacia mí) mostró un tono evidentemente romántico .

Anonymous said...

Al hombre lo excita que la mujer coquetee, digan lo que digan, el hombre solo necesita un incentivo, para sentirse excitado. Por ejemplo Una mirada sexi (mas bien lujuriosa), la coqueteria de una mujer, el andar, ropa provocativa, y a veces aun que anden mal vestidas, por que tambien nos gustas, Un beso, un roce, todo excita al hombre. Lo dificil es hacer que una mujer se excite en verdad, nosotra no noe exitamos fácilmente y si alguien flirtea a veces nos molesta

Anonymous said...

No estoy de acuerdo. Flirtear no tiene nada que ver con ser infiel. Una puede pertenecer solo a un hombre y flirtear porque esa es su personalidad..pero por supuesto este tipo de mujer necesita un hombre muy seguro a su lado.

Anonymous said...

El coqueteo es innato en muchas mujeres que se sienten lindas, y seguras de ellas mismas. Es una forma de estar con otros, pero permanecer siempre con un solo hombre.y es típico de mujeres que tienen un solo hombre en la vida.

Anonymous said...

Lo importante es si en la paraeja esto funciona o no...habría que preguntarle a la autora, si le funcionó en sus relaciones ser flirteadora.

Anonymous said...

Me gusta flirtear y estoy casada y enamorada de mi esposo por mas de 30 años. El me conoce y sabe como soy.Estamos así felices porque a el no le gusta flirtear. para que una relacion funcione, tienen ellos que ser diferentes..porque si a los dos les gusta lo mismo habrá peleas y conflictos emocionales.

Anonymous said...

Yo pienso que una personalidad como la de Mucha, auténtica y fiel, necesita flirtear simplemente con los ojos.necesita sentirse libre de pensamiento ya que su cuerpo pertenece solo a un hombre.

Anonymous said...

Pero ese hombre tiene que ser muy seguro de el mismo.

Anonymous said...

First is the flirting being done knowingly......is it to stroke the ego....to get something that is missing from your main relationship? Is it innocent.....can you really be flirting and not know you are? And once you are aware of it.....or aware it makes your mate uncomfortable....is it still innocent?

Anonymous said...

El coqueteo se usa para provacar a veces celos . los celos son un afrodisíaco en la relaciones sexuales. y se pueden usar para reavivar sentimientos dormidos. Todo el mundo coquetea...lo bueno aqui es que Mucha lo dice, y eso es increible..la sinceridad de la autora cuando habla de ella misma y se expone a la vida... creo que es parte de la inocencia que habla el anonimo... pero si pone a la pereja inconfortable, no hay que hacerlo. Por eso es importante en una relacion hablar que es lo que molesta y que es lo que no molesta. Y me encanta una mujer que es sincera, porque seria un desafío para mi, encontrar algien que me quiera y sea de esta manera.

Anonymous said...

Pienso que tiene que ser un hombre seguro de le y de su amor, para que pueda estar con alguien tan especial. y si una encuentra un hombre así...nada mas importa lo tiene para toda la vida. Flirtear y ser fiel no tiene nada que ver.Conozco miles de mujeres que les gusta coquetear y son las que estan casadas por años y nunca han tenido una relacion sexual fuera del matrimonio.El matrimonio es perfecto. Mientras que otras no coquetean y se van a la cama con el primero que les habla de sexo.

Anonymous said...

En el caso de Mucha es inocente, es su forma de ser y hablar...si ustedes miran sus escritos, ella coquetea con nosotros, desde las fotos, a como escribe y lo hace con hombres y mujeres. es el alma de una artista la que se expone.generalmente los artistas son asi. Ella necesita un hombre increiblemente maduro y pronto lo va a encontrar porque la siento abierta a la vida.

Anonymous said...

Me gusta el blog porque es un desafío de preguntas...donde la autora se expone sin miedos a que la juzgen. típico de una buena escritora Eres una persona íntegra y estás disfrutando de tu vida. de los diferentes pasajes de tu vida..me gustan las fotos son muy sensuales.

Anonymous said...

And once you are aware of it.....or aware it makes your mate uncomfortable....is it still innocent?

NO. no es inocente pero hay que hablarlo. Si uno habla la relacion sigue.

Anonymous said...

Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it – unless they are obviously flirty themselves. Flirting for fun is fine when you know someone a little better. If you genuinely want to meet people then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals.

Anonymous said...

flirty themselves....

Perfecto las mujers hacemos esto, y creo que es el caso de Mucha, necesita flirtear con ella misma, para poder escribir como lo hace y exponerse.

Anonymous said...

People love being around charismatic people because they spread good feelings. Get yourself into the right state for flirting and go for it. Feel good about yourself and others will feel good about you.

And you Mucha are charismatic....

Anonymous said...

Tu personalidad es carismática para hombres y mujeres.

Anonymous said...

Ella dice que siempre fue así, increible, porque gracias a eso mantuvo un matrimonio de 40 años perfecto.intacto con un amor ...único.y yo lo sé porque soy

Su mejor amiga de Buenos Aires.

Ana

Anonymous said...

According to some evolutionary psychologists, flirting may even be the foundation of civilisation as we know it. They argue that the large human brain - our superior intelligence, complex language, everything that distinguishes us from animals - is the equivalent of the peacock's tail: a courtship device evolved to attract and retain sexual partners. Our achievements in everything from art to rocket science may be merely a side-effect of the essential ability to charm.

Anonymous said...

At one level, you can flirt with more or less anyone. An exchange of admiring glances or a bit of light-hearted flirtatious banter can brighten the day, raise self-esteem and strengthen social bonds. Flirtation at this level is harmless fun, and only the stuffiest killjoys could possibly have any objections.

Anonymous said...

LOL...LOL....LOL...
Mucha a seguir flirteando.

Anonymous said...

I have read all the comments and I notice one thing....all the women think it's OK for them to flirt......but do these same women feel it's OK if thier man flirts? In my experience I've heard of and seen allot of fights over a man flirting......Author....what do you think? Do you mind if your man flirted?

Anonymous said...

yes is OK.

Anonymous said...

I think any married person should be able to talk with anyone without confusion cause his wife should trust him and he shouldn't want to take it to that next level with anyone else..........but I'm not married ....

Anonymous said...

I think a married man should be able to talk to the opposite sex is long as he is respecting boundaries and respecting his vows. If you dont have trust within your marriage in the first place than anyone of the opposite sex your mate talks to will be a problem.

: -( said...

Ok, Due to the fact I don't speak much spanish I will give my opinion here on flirting and hope I'm not making a dummy of myself. When a man or woman is single and not attached to any one else, meaning no steady man or woman, then flirting I would think would be ok. However keep in mind that man and woman can take flirting in several different ways and can sometimes lead to trouble!! Such as the person did take it as just being friendly and thinks this man or woman wants to have a relationship be it sexual or whatever. It could in rare cases even lead to rape!! There are many people in this world who have problems with their way of what flirting means. Such as here in Atlanta There are men and women that go out and flirt simply to pick up a one night stand for sex etc. Now one the other view, if a man and woman are together and in love with each other and one or the other goes out and flirts with the opsite sex then I feel this is wrong!! Being friendly is ok however there is a fine line that can decide which it is. If a man or woman is getting enough attention from their lover why would they need to flirt? Being friendly to the oppsite sex should be ok but be careful how far it goes so as not to be misunderstood as to what it really is. Now for the bottom line. I personally feel that if a woman is in love with me and I treat her like a princess and she decides to flirt with other men then it is time for me to move on. People can't and should not try to own each other but by the same feeling should have respect for their mate as to not break the heart of either. There are some very jealous and possive people in this world and this could lead somtimes to violence. Should I myself catch my mate of flirting with another man, I would figure I was not doing something right or I was not what she wanted and I would pack my bags and leave and never look back. If I was out on a date with a woman and saw her flirting with other men I would be heart broken but I would give her the space she wanted and once again leave and mever look back. I am 55 years old and have had my heart torn to shreds quite a few times. Theres nothing I can do about it but hope and pray that maybe one day I will meet my soul mate.

Anonymous said...

Billy- are you in love know?? Is she the one?

Anonymous said...

me gustas Billy.
Una lectora

Anonymous said...

coquetear es sinonimo de ser el centro de algo. es bueno no es malo depende la seguridad del hombre y cuanto ame.

Anonymous said...

I personally feel that if a woman is in love with me and I treat her like a princess and she decides to flirt with other men then it is time for me to move on. People can't and should not try to ....

I love thes man...

: -( said...

In love now? This is a very hard question for me. For over 50 years I had never know what real love was. I was always lied to and or cheated on. There have been very few women that I have loved because of the pain it can cause. I built a wall around me many years ago and figured that there was really no such thing as love. Then about 4 years ago a woman started chipping away at that wall and it took her almost a year to finally break through and she found my heart. We were best of friends and lovers. Almost 4 years have went by with that then at the first of this year things have started changing for her. Promises that was made have been broken, This is hard to explain but we live about 800 miles apart from each other and we were so connected that if one of us were sad or hurt or anything the other knew about it instantly without being told. I use to visit her like once or twice a month and we always had lots of fun, we would also cuddle and snuggle up to each other and of course lots of times we would make love that would last for hours... Not trying to brag here but a few times she would wave a white flag.... of course she wore me out a few times also. Then there were times we did nothing but have a little fun going out to eat and the come back and just cuddle with each other...It never mattered to me as long as I was with her... Then for some reason, even to this day things have changed very bad. I have no clue as to why but I do know that the love has slowly slipped away. We still talk some but thats about it. I kind of feel like building up my wall again and believing I was right about true love. I am not the most handsome guy in the world but I also am not bad looking either. In no way or fashion have I shown her the pain and damage she created deep within me. I stepped back and gave her all the room she wanted.... All I ever wanted in life was to be with someone that we are the best of friends, allow each other to be ourselves and not just love but to be in love with each other. To me there is a difference.

Anonymous said...

no you are not in love.now

Anonymous said...

Esto es interesante de flirteo han pasado al amor...Dios mio !!

Anonymous said...

Mucha esto parece singles date for people over 50...mira lo que has provocado..Bueno algún otro hombre que quiera hablar??Hombres hablen escuchamos y los amamos..

Anonymous said...

es Billy el único que se desnuda delante de las mujeres? vamos hablen no sean cobardes...

Anonymous said...

Women prefer 30 - 45 minutes of foreplay. Men prefer 30 - 45 seconds of foreplay. Men consider driving back to her place as part of the foreplay.

Maturity:
Women mature much faster than men. Most 17-year-old females can function as adults. Most 17-year-old males are still trading baseball cards and giving each other wedgies after gym class. This is why high school romances rarely work.

Anonymous said...

Men see the telephone as a communications tool. They use the telephone to send short messages to other people. A woman can visit her girlfriend for two weeks, and upon returning home, she will call the same friend and they will talk for three hours.lol...

Anonymous said...

Soy el cuarenta. Y creo que Mucha es increible...

Anonymous said...

Creo que necesitamos mas hombres opinando ya que pobrecitos los matamos..

Anonymous said...

a woman asks a man to water her plants while she is on vacation. The man waters the plants. The woman comes home five days later, to an apartment full of dead plants. No one knows why this happens.

: -( said...

It takes more than just water to make something grow and survive.....It takes more than just food also. Most everything takes loving care or it dies.. This includes plants, animals and of course people.

Anonymous said...

Billy we love you..

Anonymous said...

Where is Big???

: -( said...

If I could hug the hearts of each of you I would. Mucha has touched on a subject very dear to me. Most of her writings are awesome!!! I have had the pleasure to get to talk with her on the phone. I thank each of you for allowing me to post here and putting up with my english. I do use a translator software to read each post and also the writings from Mucha.

Anonymous said...

I work at a club as a bartender on fridays and as a waiter on sat. it happens to be a male strip club… so many women come up there by themselves not worrying about guys hitting on them because of what type of place it is…. so after the guys get done doing there show… them women are usually all rilied up and look for the next best thing … me…. and of course being single i cant help myself… i need to learn some control . help me please

Anonymous said...

Flirting is a complex business: it involves tone of voice, double meanings, body language, and a lot of eye-contact. Some people are good at it, others not so good. Sometimes it goes on for just a brief time, sometimes it goes on for a long time between people who come into contact with one another fairly regularly. Sometimes it's a prelude to something more, but sometimes it's just a little fun. Billy change your attitude

Anonymous said...

Lo interesante de este blog es que puedes escribir en ingles o español
Buenísimo.

Anonymous said...

Los hombres inseguros son los don juanes los que miran a las mujeres y necesitan flirtear. Son generalmente hombres dominantes, inseguros de ellos mismos... Son propensos a las iras momentáneas y a cambios en la personalidad de un dia para otro. Son hombres abusadores generalmente tienen un aura y las mujeres los siguen,,pero terminan siempre solos porque en el fondo las odian

: -( said...

OK, everyone has the right to voice their opinion. I don't feel that it is wrong for two people that are in love with each other to have friends and even be friendly with members of the opposite sex. I would have no problem with that at all!! There is a big difference with flirting and being friends though. I am no expert by no means however most of the time if someone is flirting there are out looking for attention be it one night or many. If people are single this is just fine. If 2 people are in love with each other to me and this is just my humble opinion this is wrong and there is something wrong with the relationship. That is why and again this is just my humble feelings that if I were in love with someone and she starting flirting with another guy I would step back and give her all the room she wanted. You can't make someone love you and respect you. Now as I said in the beginning that everyone has a right to their opinion, I would never tell someone that there way of thinking is wrong and my way is right.

Anonymous said...

Bravo Billy BRAVO !!!!!
The women

Anonymous said...

excelente Billy estoy de acuerdo
Una mujer

Anonymous said...

Flirting is much more than just a bit of fun: it is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. Anthropological research shows that flirting is to be found, in some form, in all cultures and societies around the world.

Flirting is a basic instinct, part of human nature. This is not surprising: if we did not initiate contact and express interest in members of the opposite sex, we would not progress to reproduction, and the human species would become extinct.

Anonymous said...

I love man

: -( said...

I agree, flirting or whatever one does to find their counterpart or even soul mate is fine. But once you are in love in my humble opinion flirting is showing that you are no longer happy with the relationship you are in. To me the decent and repectful thing to do would be to leave the present relationship then go flirt or whatever... Then go make babies if that is your desire.. Why make the hurt any worse than it already is for the one you loved or even worse to embarrass them in public?

Anonymous said...

Evolution has favoured males who select young, attractive mates and females who select partners with power, wealth and status. Men therefore naturally tend to seek women who are younger than them and place greater emphasis on physical beauty, while women are more likely to favour older males with higher status and earning potential. Women also tend to prefer men who are taller than them. Analysis of thousands of personal ads - where people are more explicit about their requirements, and more obviously conscious of the requirements of others - shows that these are the qualities most frequently demanded and offered by mate-seekers.

Anonymous said...

Humour is a powerful flirting tool. It is almost impossible to flirt successfully or enjoyably without it, and yet it can easily backfire if abused or misused.

: -( said...

Anonymous said...
Evolution has favoured males who select young, attractive mates and females who select partners with power, wealth and status. Men therefore naturally tend to seek women who are younger than them and place greater emphasis on physical beauty, while women are more likely to favour older males with higher status and earning potential.....


You know what? you are so right!!! Then later down the road they find out what is inside this person is ugly!! It is so unfortunate that this is discovered later in time and sometimes after its to late! Such as women being beat, children abused, drugs etc. To be honest, again in my humble opinion, you can't really see whats on the outside till you know what is inside a person...

Anonymous said...

Bueno soy el numero 60....fue un debate tremendo y mañana es sabado duermo hasta tarde. No blog el sabado.Un beso a todos

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